October 5, 2023
By Kimmy Foulds
Though this is not a popular topic to discuss or think about, it is the right time to acknowledge this subject and the beloved important lives (past and present) who do matter—for many to know you are not forgotten. Grasping to inhale that struggled breath by the hands of another person, is a critical life changer in severe domestic violence incidences and violence all together, in any form mentally or physically. With tender emotion and support, please remember, the Will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.
This is for loved ones that care and for the loved ones seeking shelter, escape.
As the author of this warning, she knows firsthand the domestic violence undertakings with extensive endurance through decades of private hurt and pain by her abuser. Attempting to flee nine times, she finally saw the light of freedom but at the terrifying cost of continuing life threats. Still, deceitful trials by her abuser are dangerously ongoing as abrupt attacks, she encourages other victims to search for the beacon of God’s faith to be saved in His illuminating path of protection and His daily walk of guidance.
Please, if you are observing or experiencing uneasy, disturbing, inappropriate behaviors mentally/physically or isolation from friends or family in a relationship of any kind, reach out without denial, guilt or embarrassment. Communicate, listen and believe with acceptance. Struggles will be up and down with serious turmoil, especially when children are involved. Positivity is the key while engulfing the good amidst the ugly to persist with strong sound goals to survive undisturbed without vile drama.
Fear, being afraid and frightened with threats are not love.
Deep affection is not to hurt or cause friction with volcanic chaos.
Encountering stifles, control and ridicule are not admiration.
Endearment is not to force activity or demands upon you against your will.
Survey, recognize and audit your instincts and alarms for help and security.
Waiting for the right time to see corrected change in someone or thinking situations will improve but are worsening with severity, frequency and intensity would be too late with devastating impacts.
Proceed in the integrity that enough is enough by stopping the cycle.
Set the example that violence of any manner is not tolerable.
Your courage to walk away, literally run or flee to seek shielded refuge is wiser than to be another unknown or not cared about statistic of tragedy.
When you are in a sheltered place with loved ones helping you, remain bold in spirit, steadfast and take precautionary measures with prudence.
Generate and follow a safety plan with your confidants and converse with each other throughout the day, every day.
Remove yourself from social media platforms and utilize wise technology skills not to be tracked during extreme harsh tensions or circumstances.
Pray. God’s armor is surrounding you with his promises to protect you.
Detect quiet segments from your harasser for you might endure unanticipated stunts that could happen repeatedly.
Identify forthcoming schemed and brewed exploits from your culprit that would surface in front of you as malicious actions with intent to harm.
Understand and be prepared to wait on God’s time, not your time, to heal with questions without answers.
Processing the upheaval is not an instant fix but a mountain of glory and acclaim in the wait as your soul regains vigor with inspired and motivated attainment.
Realize to clutch one day at a time as you mend with a profound comeback.
Divide the day into each hour or less to perceive anything or everything can change in a minute that swirls into a new, unexpected trajectory.
Use the valuable personal restoration to meditate and pause to rejuvenate your energy with gratefulness and happily infuse daily.
Appreciate the longer you abide for God’s blessings with patience, you will witness the greater blessing He has in store for you.
As you liberate with cautious steps to the other side in your solo journey of independence, you will see the remarkable and unimaginable light shine.
Though days will be a storm of lows and highs, the passage is yours to own as a flare beaming as your sacred sanctuary.
In the midst of tears, never give up for you are brave, vital and worthy.
Validate your passage as you start a new awakening, refreshed life.
Comprehend that altered and revived dreams can be made, lived and expressed in a serene haven without coerced, inflicted stress or convoluted worry.
God has an enormous, beautiful plan for you with peace, calmness and bliss.
A silent guarded life will emerge from the inward torment, as you phase from a Victim to embrace a deserved, discovered, victorious Survivorship.
Keep looking upwards with a smile on your face for God created this extraordinary precious kind gesture for a reason.
Remember to forgive and be humble with grace as you courageously go forward with your faith in God who saved you to be alive to share your testimony.
You have a purpose and are loved with value.
Your dignity, pride and cherished life will be rescued with immense miracles.
God will provide for you as He will never leave you or forsake you; Joshua 1:9.
Adhere to your contingency plan, tell others in confidence and stay alert to your senses.
You have assisting palms and assurance in the distress as you heroically take the “Road Less Traveled,” by Lauren Alaina, who poignantly performs this message that is applicable to many cruel and related levels to flip negative to positive.
Publicly speaking about this severe and real topic, the author is reaching out to her two grown sons who she has not seen close to 14 years since she fled her violent abuser, their father. This song is dedicated to her precious souls to let them know they have always been and will always stay forever in her broken heart with devoted love as their one and only Mom by Ed Sheeran, “Photograph.”
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233).
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Graciously thanking everyone with grateful appreciation expressed.
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